what is that

what does it mean. how come men don't like to tell people they are hanging out with me. how come no one in their life knows anything about me. i'm just that chic they lie to. i love you. i want a life with you. lets build something. but when i'm riding right beside you and your phone rings and the person on the other end asks "what are you doing"... hanging out with takiyah... is never the response.

ok, this would have been a fluke if it happened once. but i thought back and realized it had happened before and now it happens again. what exactly does this mean?